We all, have been in love with someone, who was stressing us, when he was not giving any sign of life and in the next minute, we were filled with hopes just from receiving a single text message.
But there are some reasons why you should not run behind a guy, no matter how much in love you are .
1. Chasing someone who does not respond, you only hurt yourselves!
When we have met the right person, that feels the same things as us, we know it very well and that leads not need to run after him, hunting is bidirectional.
Otherwise, we spend energy, to find ways to make him fall in love with us, … very often in vain.
2. We forget our friends and important people in our lives!
Friends and family are in second priority (and third and fourth), in other words, we alienate.
Wasting time and experiences while trying to create those, with a man whose we are not a priority.
3. We offer our heart to someone who does not deserve it!
The one who is dying to be with us, does not neglect us. We should not chase a man, for whom, we are ready to give our most beautiful feelings and he does not want to do the same for us.
4. We waste all our energy on something that is ephemeral!
We wasting energy to look to the future and not the next weekend options. We are missing the first step.
5. Starting to forget everything that is important to us!
We dreamed something different and we had plans for beautiful things, but suddenly, the only thing we care about is this message / phone call / e-mail at 2:00 p.m..
6. We go crazy!
This game may result, in an endless hide and seek, with incredible obsessions.
And suddenly we feel that we start losing our minds. Of course even if this is not true, but the fact that we get like that,
is by itself, an indicator, that says that it needs to be stopped.
7. Oppressing ourselves, forcing things to develop!
Many times the cliché: “what is to be done, will be done”, is an enormous wisdom, because that is what we need.
Let things take their way by themselves, even if the result is not our first choice.
8. Flirting can be fun, but also exhausting!
Flirting and love are two very beautiful things, but it takes two to tango.
When we live it, by our own is stressful and tiring.