Are your standards different, regarding what to expect, in order to be happy in a relationship?
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Myth No. 1: Happy couples see things, through each other’s eyes.
Regardless how much in love you're with each other, one can not see through the eyes of another. You're not the same people with your partner, nor you need to agree in everything. Your experiences, your psychology, your gender, limits how Siamese you will be.
Of course, if there is a good match, then you see the world from the same perspective, and that's what counts.
Myth No. 2: Happy couples are all hugs and kisses.
Do not confuse a healthy bond with a bond like “superglue”. No, even the happiest people in a relationship, have jobs, obligations and limited time. Romance is necessary, even a little portion every day, but not from morning till night.
Myth No. 3: Happy couples solve all their differences.
Happy, un-happy, THERE ARE NO couples WIHOUT disagreements.
The difference is that happy couples:
- Know to solve their differences without causing a wound in their relationship.
- Communicate effectively when a problem comes and they don’t store anger.
Myth No. 4: Happy couples have common interests.
Neither you have to learn to play soccer, nor he has to learn embroidery.
Generally, to be excited and happy, you just need to do things that I am please, you even separately, as long as you and talk about your interests when you are together.
Myth No. 5: Happy couples have sex all the time.
No couple can have the same sexual energy, constantly and at every stage of their relationship. Of course, happy couples know how to make sex part of the relationship, never forget, never neglect it, never leave it without evolution.
Happy couples do not DO IT all day but sex is at the top of their priorities.
Myth No. 6: Happy couples know the right and wrong in order to make their relationship work:
I wish they knew how to act properly and avoid mistakes in order to keep their relationship healthy. No such Guide Book exists!
Those who are doing it, work hard, love more and know how to forgive.
Have you established a false opinion of how
happy couples are living?