Men are "pigs“, while women are simply … “neglected”.
The infidelity of a husband, is accompanied by expressions and words of disapproval, but on the contrary there is a much broader understanding for a woman.
“They are all the same”, would be said for a guy. "Well, she did what she could. But he was neglecting her. What else could she do? “ … Will be the comment for a woman.
Infidelity, unfortunately, has double standards, in our society, with the male population to receive, all the fire and all the criticism, and the female to be considered more mature, conscious and to receive more tolerance towards sin .
Could all this be just strict, obsolete, social standards, that respond poorly to the present times?
Facts show that, yes, the proof is not found only in researches, but also in our friendly working environment - if there is honesty,
as infidelity, is an issue that many avoid to admit and confess.
Some respond with automation and ease, that men are most prone to sin, but occasionally statistics belie them. At the past, the truth is, that the gentlemen, had a respectable lead, but the gap, nowadays gets diminished. In fact, there is an impressive reversal.
A recent British research shows that only 9% of men are into infidelity, versus 25% of women, showing ready to slide.
The causes and nature of infidelity are too many.
They have to do with the human personality itself (insecure, feeling unfulfilled, emotional deficiencies, etc.), the state of the relationship, but also for purely random, spontaneous and passers factors. And may a woman look more "eclectic“, when succumbing to “grey activities“,
but that does not automatically make her beyond any doubt.
The social context is perhaps a factor that has also enabled women to free themselves sexually. Moving out of the parents home, for business and social reasons, never mind about the girls’ nights, offers many who wish and dare, to take their chances for pranks and ...
In other words, its not that someone sprayed something, suddenly, or that there is something strange in the air, and suddenly women became equally unfaithful.
Infidelity and the feeling of luring (poetic phrase) is in the human element, it is an animal instinct. The logic, the experiences and the mood-psychology, are elements that can prevent us, from a faux pas, without being necessary, that this make us better or worse people.
As there are faithful men, there are equally faithful women and as long as there are male cheaters there are female cheaters.
Do you think that all men, cheat on their partner, only with single women? :)
Times change and old perceptions collapse!
The sinless, casts the first stone… (John 8:7)